What you seek is seeking you.
I am a big fan of Rumi. I can speak and write hours about his quotes. His love for life and soul.
I understand from this quote that whatever we are seeking is inside us. We need to find the purpose of our lives. If we do not do it and do not listen what we want, we can not be happy. The solution is always inside. All the solutions.
As an alternative way astrological analysis with life coaching can really help to see your life purpose. For example if you can not decide between career or children, an analysis of your natal chart, the analysis of your career house and family house can definitely explain what makes you happy.
Not everyone is born to have family, some women are born to work and fight. And this is TOTALLY ok. But sometimes you can not come to the answers by yourself because of the outer comments.